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Month: June 2013

ascot, acid-wash & clotted cream. indeed!!

Jun 21, 2013 • 8 Comments

“Daahhling, are you sure you’re not lesbian?” asks my über-posh British friend, Daisy*, over vodka tonics with lime cordial and… read more

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3 Dogs & A Grand Piano (I realise I’ve shared t 3 Dogs & A Grand Piano (I realise I’ve shared this photo already on my private SM but oh well..) Since my last post in early May, I've been busy!! Nothing to do with the podcast although much of what I'm doing is very "Accidental Anthropologist-y" - in a cultural observation kinda way.  After 12 years in London, my family picked up and moved again and now I'm writing this post from my new life in Southern Spain.   Tell you what, an international move in one's 50's is not the same as moving in one's 30's. This one just about brought me to my knees -- if only because I had to deal with getting rid of SO. MUCH. SHIT. I felt like I made at least 18 trips to charity shops and about 180 trips to "the tip" (British speak for dumpyard/ recycling centre).  It got to the point where the only thing I cared about bringing to our new home was the dogs and the piano. If there's one thing I learned with my sister's death, it's that we take nothing with us so why-oh- why do we accumulate so much stuff? And why do we attach so much emotional energy and importance to things?  This is also our first move as empty nesters. Sure our kids are with us for the summer so come September, not gonna lie - the thought of no longer having to do the school run makes my heart sing. But more on that in a future podcast ... Lastly, my self-imposed sabbatical from social media was also  a bit of a mindbend. The verdict? Fabulous. Everyone should do it. Everyone. But more on that too in a future post!  In the meantime, Hola from Spain! And quick question- “my essentials” are the dogs and the piano. What are yours? #culturepodcast #writers #writercommunity #writersofinstagram #writesofig #podcast #podcastaboutpeople #podcasting #podcastersofinstagram #podcasthost #podcastshow #diversestories #differentperspectives #multicultural #asianrepresentation #expatlife #emptynester #readcaption #newadventures #newlife
Episode 8: Season Finale!!! It's been a bit mani Episode 8: Season Finale!!! It's been a bit manic on this end for reasons I will reveal soonish but in the meantime, I am THRILLED to release my season finale: Deeper Voices. Many of my listeners have asked when I would interview men and so for this final episode, I've reached out to 25 men from literally all over the globe to hear their "high notes" from the pandemic. I loved producing this episode! I loved the contribution from varied geographies. I loved the honesty, the simplicity, the depth and the often "no-frills" perspectives of these men from different age groups (17-64). Please have a listen and let me know what, if anything, has restored YOUR faith in humanity over the pandemic. And thank you so much again for all your encouragement and support throughout my first season! (Link in bio to listen)
Posting this once again as a reminder to please ch Posting this once again as a reminder to please check out my essay on anti-racism -- which I've published on my website (link in bio) and on Medium. Albert Einstein said, "The world is not a dangerous place because of those who do evil but because of those who look on and do nothing." Complacency in the face of cruelty to others is just as cruel as the act of cruelty itself. And as I've mentioned the first time I posted this essay, NO part of me is playing victim when I mentioned my own experience of being discriminated against. Being outraged hearing stories like mine and others is a privilege. Rather than outrage, I'm asking for awareness, empathy (*not* sympathy) and perhaps even action... It's a 3 minute read. I hope you'll take the time to look this piece over and share it. Thanks so much in advance. #stopasianhate #stopaapihate #stopviolenceagainstwomen #webelong #strongertogether #diversityandinclusion #diversity #asianamerican #apas #racialjustice #respectwomen #asianrepresentation
Kindness Karma Spotlight: Fiona Swerdlow I met Fi Kindness Karma Spotlight: Fiona Swerdlow I met Fiona in NY when we were both on the board for our children’s school. She kept me in-check. Where I wanted to “stick-it-to-‘em”, Fiona was diplomatic. Where I swore like a trucker, Fiona was the voice of calm. Where I went anti-establishment, Fiona was purely professional. I’m not sure I can do justice describing Fiona’s heart. Here was a woman with a “real job” — who travels constantly and makes guest appearances on major news networks to advise on the state of all things e-commerce. And yet, she’s dropped it all to be there for me *and* my family - without hesitation. She’s rolled up her sleeves to cook and clean (vacuuming, laundry) for my sister in my absence. She’s been there for every major family benchmark. She’s held my hand at funerals (plural) and visits with my sister’s widower and children even after my sister’s death. Fiona is a forever friend who shows up. Always. She’s never judged me. She eschews assumptions. She defies stereotypes. Her generosity and selflessness are breath-taking in depth. Sometimes I wonder what I did right in my life to deserve her... #podcasthost #podcastsofinstagram #kindnessmatters #womenwhosupportwomen #sisterhood #choosekindness #lovingkindness #spreadkindness #womenwholift #womenempowerment #karma #friendsforever #friendship
Dispatch from Europe When I see posts from friend Dispatch from Europe When I see posts from friends and family in the USA, just want to say that sometimes it feels like we’re living in parallel universes. Over here, as of last Monday, we’re finally allowed to socialise with ONE other household- outside. IF we manage to keep our Covid numbers at bay, on April 12th, I can finally go to the hair salon! Am not complaining! We here in England have it pretty good in comparison. My girlfriend in Ireland was thrilled that yesterday the government announced that on April 12, they could move *within* their county and for once, beyond the strictly enforced 5km perimeter. This means she can see her brother again who lives an hour away. We cheered together with excitement and optimism that we’re moving slowly slowly in the right direction. Apparently everything is open too in Asia. I find it fascinating how varied our approaches are to the pandemic. So in absence of being able to sit in a restaurant (which I honestly can’t even remember doing), am posting my dinner over here. Am so over it- cooking and playing the “Gawdesse Domestique”. Even cozy family time has a sell-by date... sigh. I wait with baited anticipation about being able to join the ranks of life beyond lockdown. Someday... Until then, we just keep on “carrying on”... #culturaldifferences #lockdownlife #culturepodcast #writers #writercommunity #writersofinstagram #writesofig #podcast #podcastaboutpeople #podcasting #podcastlaunch #podcastersofinstagram #podcasthost #podcastshow #diversestories #differentperspectives #multicultural #asianrepresentation #choosekindness #spreadingkindness #kindnessmatters #lovingkindness #readcaption #heartcentered
Episode 7 Reminder! Another selfie with my specia Episode 7 Reminder! Another selfie with my special series co-host, Natalia-Paloma, to say thank you to everyone who has listened to Part 2 : American women across 5 age groups share their thoughts on social media. The vibe is different to Part 1 - but just as engaging and substantive. Because of this series' amazing panelists, I'm more open to the *possibility* of doing a videocast one day. The body language, facial expressions and laughter almost need to be shared visually. Please click on the link in my bio to listen if you haven't already. Thank you "up, down & all around" many times over for your incredible support, encouragement and outreach already! #podcast #podcasting #podcastresearch #podcastersofinstagram #podcasthost #podcastshow #diversestories #differentperspectives #multicultural #readcaption #writers #gratitude #ageing #asianrepresentation #socialmedia #generationaldifferences #podcastmusic #generation #genz #millenials #whoiskaren #motherdaughter #mommyandme #podcastmusic
The Consequence of Othering- A Commentary on the G The Consequence of Othering- A Commentary on the Growing Asian-Hate Crimes in the USA Excerpt: None of this is new sadly. Discrimination never is. I’ve personally experienced anti-Asian sentiment since well before my example from 1987. I’ve been ignored, cursed at, told to “Go back to where you’re from!”, made of fun of, stereotyped and even… spat on. Based on what’s happening now in the States, it would appear I had it easy... Please check out my essay on anti-Asian violence by clicking on the link in my bio or by looking me up on Medium. #stopasianhate #stopaapihate #stopviolenceagainstwomen #webelong #strongertogether #diversityandinclusion #diversity #asianamerican #apas #racialjustice #respectwomen #asianrepresentation
3 Dogs & A Grand Piano (I realise I’ve shared t 3 Dogs & A Grand Piano (I realise I’ve shared this photo already on my private SM but oh well..) Since my last post in early May, I've been busy!! Nothing to do with the podcast although much of what I'm doing is very "Accidental Anthropologist-y" - in a cultural observation kinda way.  After 12 years in London, my family picked up and moved again and now I'm writing this post from my new life in Southern Spain.   Tell you what, an international move in one's 50's is not the same as moving in one's 30's. This one just about brought me to my knees -- if only because I had to deal with getting rid of SO. MUCH. SHIT. I felt like I made at least 18 trips to charity shops and about 180 trips to "the tip" (British speak for dumpyard/ recycling centre).  It got to the point where the only thing I cared about bringing to our new home was the dogs and the piano. If there's one thing I learned with my sister's death, it's that we take nothing with us so why-oh- why do we accumulate so much stuff? And why do we attach so much emotional energy and importance to things?  This is also our first move as empty nesters. Sure our kids are with us for the summer so come September, not gonna lie - the thought of no longer having to do the school run makes my heart sing. But more on that in a future podcast ... Lastly, my self-imposed sabbatical from social media was also  a bit of a mindbend. The verdict? Fabulous. Everyone should do it. Everyone. But more on that too in a future post!  In the meantime, Hola from Spain! And quick question- “my essentials” are the dogs and the piano. What are yours? #culturepodcast #writers #writercommunity #writersofinstagram #writesofig #podcast #podcastaboutpeople #podcasting #podcastersofinstagram #podcasthost #podcastshow #diversestories #differentperspectives #multicultural #asianrepresentation #expatlife #emptynester #readcaption #newadventures #newlife
Episode 8: Season Finale!!! It's been a bit mani Episode 8: Season Finale!!! It's been a bit manic on this end for reasons I will reveal soonish but in the meantime, I am THRILLED to release my season finale: Deeper Voices. Many of my listeners have asked when I would interview men and so for this final episode, I've reached out to 25 men from literally all over the globe to hear their "high notes" from the pandemic. I loved producing this episode! I loved the contribution from varied geographies. I loved the honesty, the simplicity, the depth and the often "no-frills" perspectives of these men from different age groups (17-64). Please have a listen and let me know what, if anything, has restored YOUR faith in humanity over the pandemic. And thank you so much again for all your encouragement and support throughout my first season! (Link in bio to listen)
Posting this once again as a reminder to please ch Posting this once again as a reminder to please check out my essay on anti-racism -- which I've published on my website (link in bio) and on Medium. Albert Einstein said, "The world is not a dangerous place because of those who do evil but because of those who look on and do nothing." Complacency in the face of cruelty to others is just as cruel as the act of cruelty itself. And as I've mentioned the first time I posted this essay, NO part of me is playing victim when I mentioned my own experience of being discriminated against. Being outraged hearing stories like mine and others is a privilege. Rather than outrage, I'm asking for awareness, empathy (*not* sympathy) and perhaps even action... It's a 3 minute read. I hope you'll take the time to look this piece over and share it. Thanks so much in advance. #stopasianhate #stopaapihate #stopviolenceagainstwomen #webelong #strongertogether #diversityandinclusion #diversity #asianamerican #apas #racialjustice #respectwomen #asianrepresentation

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